Me as a parent · A grandparent holding it all
Tools that may help you
Each tool asks a few short questions about your home and gives you one step you can start today. Free, no sign-up, and your answers stay on your device.
- The Roles CheckTwo parents, two homes, or one parent alone · 13 questionsWho carries what with the children? Both parents can answer on one phone and see, side by side, where they agree and where one of you carries it alone.Open the tool →
- Load MapThe adult holding it all · 12 questionsEverything you carry, in your hands and in your head. See what only you can do, what others can share, and what you can lower for now.Open the tool →
- After I snappedAny parent, after a hard moment · 7 questionsYou shouted, or said something you regret. This tool helps you see what set it off and gives you the words for a calm repair tonight.Open the tool →
- Low battery dayThe adult holding it all · 5 questionsThe days you have nothing left. Keep three things today, drop or lower the rest, without guilt.Open the tool →
- Care agreementThe wider family · 9 questionsFor grandparents, relatives, carers and stepparents. Agree on where to start, and three clear lines everyone around the child can hold.Open the tool →