Disclaimer

Last updated: 21 October 2026

Understanding, not treatment

This site is written to help adults understand what may be happening in their family. It is educational. It is not medical, psychological, psychiatric, legal or financial advice, and it is not a substitute for a doctor, therapist, lawyer or other professional who knows your situation.

MOH. SAMY is an author and behavioural systems designer. He is not a doctor, psychologist or therapist. Nothing on this site diagnoses a child, a parent or a family.

The tools and sheets

The tools offer possibilities worth noticing, never conclusions. When the answers are not clear enough, they say "Not sure yet" instead of guessing. The 7-day sheets are small experiments. They do not promise that a problem will go away.

Health and safety information

Where an article mentions signs that need a doctor, those lines are taken from official health sources and linked, so you can read them in full. Guidance can change, so always check with your own doctor, midwife or local health service.

If anyone is in danger now, call your local emergency number. If you are worried about someone's safety today, reach a person today: a doctor, a crisis service or someone you trust.

Research

Articles cite research honestly, including its limits. Many studies show links, not causes, and results from one country or group may not hold for every family.

How articles are written

Every article is reviewed and approved by MOH. SAMY before it is published, lists the sources it draws on, and shows the date it was last reviewed.

Books and links

Some pages show books by MOH. SAMY. A book appears only when it is available, with a link to its page on Amazon. If we ever earn a commission from a link, the page will say so.